I have stories.
For over a decade I lived two completely different lives.
During the day, I worked in advertising.
Meetings. Strategy decks. Corporate politics. Clients.
At night, I worked as an exotic dancer and model.
Different clothes.
Different conversations.
Same human behavior.
One world taught me how people sell.
The other taught me what people buy.
One taught me branding.
The other taught me desire.
Turns out they're not that different.
Both worlds are built on perception.
Both are driven by emotion.
Both reward people who know how to read a room.
I've always been the person watching instead of talking.
I notice who interrupts.
Who apologizes too much.
Who keeps choosing people they have to convince to love them.
Who says they're confident but asks permission before every decision.
Patterns are everywhere.
Most people just don't slow down long enough to see them.
My education didn't happen in a classroom.
It happened in green rooms, agency boardrooms, dive bars, five-star hotels, airports, bad relationships, incredible relationships, and plenty of situations I would never recommend repeating.
The upside?
You don't have to.
I've already done enough experimenting for both of us.